English, French

Let's see, I'm a 31 y.o. fledgling (I won't quite go so far as 'struggling' yet) writer and poet in Atlanta who would love to make some new friends and possibly find someone very special for something more serious.

I'd like to think I'm pretty funny, and my sense of humor is one of the things most people would probably focus on in describing me. I believe a day without humor is hollow, so I try to find a way to enjoy some levity on a daily basis. I am also developing my intellectual chops, and I am always trying to learn something new and explore lifes mysteries.

Humor, creativity, an open mind, and yes, sensuality too, are all of paramount importance to me in life, so I'd love to find someone who feels the same way.

As far as what I'm looking for? Well, like the Supreme Court's definition of obscenity... I know it when I see it. LMAO! In short, there aren't many hard and fast criteria for what I'm looking for in a mate. And there are some things I can compromise on. But, mainly, I look for commonality, a phenomenal sense of humor, a sharp wit, a sweet personality, and a *very* open mind... beyond that? Just about anything can go on the table for discussion...

And, as far as the more 'intimate' side of things goes, I'm also into swinging & polyamory, so I should put that out there. While I'm very knowledgeable about the lifestyle in theory, I have yet to get much practical experience under my belt... I am very open-minded and easy-going, and like people who are the same. I'm mellow, and like people who aren't overly dramatic. I'm fun, funny, witty, clever, understanding and articulate. Depending on my mood, sometimes I'm looking for sensual/romantic encounters, and sometimes, something hotter...

Leo

Heavyset

6' 3 (1.91 m)

Brown

African American

Single

No

Not Sure

Eyes

Other

Bald

No pets

Some College

Part-time

Entertainment / Media

Event coordinator ... freelance writer

Less Than $14,999USD

With Parent(s)

All Is Calm

Yes - Trying To Quit

Yes - Socially

Brain

Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious, Dark, Strange

Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Dining, Photography, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Cars, Playing Cards, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Reading A Book, Going To A Casino, Playing Dress-up, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

Now how can I say what the ideal would be without knowing what my date likes to do? I'm flexible, but I have *NO* problem coming up with ideas or making my preferences known.

Hmmm, mountain climbing... skydiving... a long boat trip or cruise... backpacking & hosteling through a foreign country... And quite a few other things that you'll just have to ask about ;-)

Friendly, Cool, Raunchy, Obscure, Goofy, A Flirt

Agnostic

Never

Liberal

To become a working writer... and eventually a successful working *author*, and yes, there is a difference. LOL To make the world a better place than I found it. Maybe bring about world peace (OK, that was a cheesy, pandering talent show answer, right?) To have fun, and find someone fun to share life with. (But isn't that what we're all looking for?)

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Slapstick, Raunchy, Sadistic

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, Sports, Reality Shows, Soaps, Re-runs

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Thriller, Adult

Country, Rap, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, Latin, New age, Ambient, Soul, Reggae, Folk, Punk

News, Ancient, Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Business, Classic, Comic, Computers, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, History, Home & Garden, Horror, Humor, Instructional, Mathematics, Music, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Reference, Poetry, Religious, Satire, Science, Science Fiction, Sports, I'm An Author

Simple usually (especially since I'm kinda broke at the moment. LOL But really, it could be just about anything, as long as I am with fun, creative, and pleasant company. I'm pretty easy going, and easy to please...

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

Basically, someone, who because of their personality, charm, wit, sensuality (and perhaps even looks, can make me do a double take... maybe even a triple take! Someone who can make me wonder how I went so long without knowing them. Someone who I'd love to have as a lifelong friend...or more. And, of course someone who's been looking for someone like me wouldn't hurt at all! LOL

Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed